I think I agree with you. It could be just a matter of static bias or some other fairly simple mechanism to explain why these numbers are the same.
Imagine an object made of only red marbles as the 'base state'. Now you somehow manage to remove one red marble: you're at -1. You add a red marble and you're at +1. It doesn't require any other marbles. Then you go and measure the charge of a marble and you and up at some 12 digit number. The one state will show negative that 12 digit number the other will show positive that 12 digit number.
Assigning charge as being the property of a proton or an electron rather than one of their equivalent constituent components is probably a mistake.
Imagine an object made of only red marbles as the 'base state'. Now you somehow manage to remove one red marble: you're at -1. You add a red marble and you're at +1. It doesn't require any other marbles. Then you go and measure the charge of a marble and you and up at some 12 digit number. The one state will show negative that 12 digit number the other will show positive that 12 digit number.
Assigning charge as being the property of a proton or an electron rather than one of their equivalent constituent components is probably a mistake.